Its better to meet up sooner rather than later, says dating expert for Match Hayley Quinn. One to two weeks is the optimum about of time, according to Quinn, as it gives you time to get to know them, but not too much time that you overthink or the spark fizzles.

How long should you talk to someone before meeting up?

“Four to five days of chatting before you initiate the date is often the sweet spot. It gives you enough time to build that foundation of trust, but its not so long that the momentum drops off.”

How long after texting Should I ask her out?

The best time to ask her out over text is after each of you have messaged the other 3 or 4 times. If you did things right on the dating app, thats all it takes to reignite her attraction and make her feel ready to meet you. Thats just a guideline, though.