“Four to five days of chatting before you initiate the date is often the sweet spot. It gives you enough time to build that foundation of trust, but its not so long that the momentum drops off.”

Should you text the day before a date?

In terms of confirming, its best to confirm a day before the date. A text like, “Looking forward to seeing you tomorrow at 7,” should do the trick. So, if youre intent on texting before a date, then try to keep these texts to a minimum, with the sole purpose of determining the logistics of the date.