What to say to someone who gives you mixed signals?

Instead, you could say, I feel like Ive been getting mixed signals from you lately. I cant tell if you really want to be with me or not. If youre still new to a relationship, you could say something like, I know weve only been on a few dates, but I like you a lot. Im just curious if were on the same page.

Why do guys give mixed messages?

Mixed signals can simply be a miscommunication—or they can be an excuse to hold you at arms length because they dont want to commit (or make you believe that they are ready to). Mixed signals can definitely mean that the other person isnt going all in on you, but thats not the only answer at play.