Alright, so the main reasons why guys disappear after a great first date is that they arent interested. Whether the date was perfect on your end or not, they werent feeling you. It might have been something you did/said/wore, or, it was just you as a person. I mean, you may be awesome.

Why do guys go quiet after the first date?

Although you may have really liked him and felt the chemistry, it is possible he didnt feel the same way and you misread or overlooked signals. Many guys report they didnt find a woman attractive due to the way she looked, the way she acted, or things that were said on that first date that turned them off.

Why did I get ghosted after a great first date?

Maggies personal rule of ghosting involves what she calls a two-date cutoff. If either party isnt feeling it after two dates, they can slip away without explanation. If it felt to you that the person just disappeared mid-sentence, and you sensed the jarring effects, then yeah, thats ghosting.