When someone doesnt have friends its almost never because their core personality is unlikable. Its usually due to a mix of interfering factors such as: Theyre not knowledgeable about the skills for making friends. Theyre too shy, socially anxious, insecure, or unconfident to pursue friendships.

Why do I not make friends easily?

A few common issues that make it hard to find friends include shyness, social anxiety, complaining a lot, and expecting too much from new acquaintances. If youre not sure why you struggle to make friends, ask someone you trust for their perspective. Make sure youre prepared to hear the answer, though.