How many dates before you decide its not a match?

Mason recommends simply focussing on one person at a time - go on three or four dates with them before deciding whether theres enough chemistry to carry on.

How do you know if your date is into you?

Flirting glances and lingering eye contact are also good signs that your date is really into you. If your date is avoiding your gaze then you might want to start planning your exit strategy. However, if your date looks into your eyes a lot or shyly looks away when your peepers meet, you might actually have a keeper.