Hooking up encompasses any type of sexual activity, from kissing to oral sex to sex -- although, usually, hookups tend to be on the lighter end of that spectrum. Two people might hook up when they are attracted to one another but not sure whether they want to date.

What does hookup mean for teens?

Teens use the expression hooking up (or messing around or friends with benefits) to describe everything from kissing to having oral sex or intercourse.

Do people actually hook up in high school?

While at a larger societal level there seems to be shift towards casual relationships, many people still choose not to engage in this aspect of high school. Hookups in high school today are just built into the culture. Whether its good or bad, its just how it is.”