A common reason why guys become cold towards their ex is because they dont want to experience more of this pain. Communicating with an ex-partner only serves to remind them of their loss, which makes it even harder for them to move on. Another reason is that they dont want their ex to see them in a vulnerable state.

Will guys miss their ex?

Guys definitely think about their ex sexually. This is why so many guys will weave a sob story about how they “miss their ex,” but that they “cant really commit to anything again.” Make no mistake about it: most of the time, guys dont miss their exes as much as they miss the sex.