But you can wait a few days to ask for a second date. According to Trombetti, the 24-hour timeline is just when it comes to sending the most basic thank you text. If youre looking to text about a second date or just to flirt, you can wait as many as three to five days after your first date.

How often should you text after first date?

Instead, send texts full of New Fun Plans. Even if you initiated the first date, dont be afraid to do so again. Aim for at least three days between dates.