Heres what I suggest: have an open, clear conversation with him about the kind of commitment youre looking for. Dont center it around whether or not hes talking to women online; focus on the reality of your in-real-life relationship, and where youd like to see it go.

Why is the guy Im dating still on dating apps?

He could also still be using dating apps, because – as great as you are – he doesnt quite know what he wants. Maybe he hasnt been single that long, maybe he isnt ready to settle down or maybe hes speaking to others to see if there is any interest there or if hes 100% into you.