Theres no such thing as being a third wheel when youre in a triad relationship. Its pretty much three people in a romantic relationship. Its not just about sex (i.e., a threesome), but a union among three people — and can often be considered a part of the larger ethical non-monogamous umbrella.

Can a threeway relationship work?

A third partner can also serve as a buffer or mediator when scuffles come up between the other two, Spector adds. All that could make for a much more satisfying relationship. Because just like couples, throuples love each other, elevate each other, argue, have sex, live together, and—yep—may even have children.

Are throuple marriages legal?

Polyamory and polygamy, which is illegal across the United States but is still in practice in some communities through spiritual unions, are vastly different. Equality is a key component of poly culture, and many polygamous marriages can be unequal.