If youre the kind of person who spends a little more time reading a profile and thinking about your message, say, 10 minutes, then the optimal length goes up a few words (to 270 characters), but, still, short is better. Savor this advice, men, for there are not many things in your world that fit this paradigm.

How long should your first message be?

A: I usually recommend that you make your first appointment for an hour. It is hard to assess new tissue and effectively treat someone in 30 minutes. After your first appointment, the time may be adjusted to 30 or 90 minutes depending on your needs.

How long should messages be on tinder?

The right answer is this: 12 to 24 hours. If you message her right away, she may notice how quickly you jumped at the opportunity to contact her. If you wait too long, she may have forgotten your face or started talking to someone else instead.

Do guys always message first on Tinder?

#1 Once You Match, Who Messages First? Either person can message first on Tinder, but some women wait for the man to reach out first. If youre swiping and match, its okay to send your first message right then. Its also okay to wait a few hours or days if youre genuinely tied up.