Polyamory might look like a romantic and sexual free-for-all from an outsiders perspective. But, even if youre in a non-monogamous arrangement, its totally still possible to cheat.

Is it possible to cheat in a poly relationship?

A polyamorous person can cheat on their partners by ignoring agreed-upon boundaries about dating others, like not telling their partners when they have sex with new people. Hailey Gill, 26, has been polyamorous since high school and told Insider what cheating looks like in their relationships.

What is considered cheating in poly?

Polyamory is, in short, consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy. This goes directly against the idea of cheating. Cheating is non-consensual, in that the person being cheated on did not consent to non-monogamy, and is unable to make informed decisions about their sexual and emotional health.

Is it okay to be in a poly relationship?

Before you consider polyamory, look honestly at yourself and ask whether or not you could handle the idea of your partner with another person. Even if it isnt about jealousy, a lot of people arent really down with the idea of having multiple partners. And thats totally fine!