Is dating a competition?

Dating is not a competition. The second you start trying to compare yourself to other guys or your partner, you will lose,” wrote RampagingKoala.

How can I be more assertive when dating?

Assertiveness and BehaviourTalking openly and honestly about your feelings. Listening to your partner, and making an effort to understand their point of view too. Being grateful when someone does something for you, however small. Admitting your mistakes and apologising for them.More items

Is being assertive attractive?

While there was no difference in the first study between females high as compared to low in physical attractiveness on the Borgatta measure of assertiveness, a trend emerged in the second study with physically attractive females evidencing greater assertiveness than their less physically attractive counterparts.