YOU MAY FEEL INSECURE AND OUT OF PLACE Like I said above, there are many emotions that come with step-parenting or dating a man with kids. You may feel awkward at events as the new girlfriend, especially around those who knew your boyfriend while he was married.

Should you date a man who has kids?

First thing you need to understand is there is nothing wrong with dating a person or marrying someone with kids. Just because a person has kids does not mean they are off the market. The fact that there are children involved doesnt change why you were attracted to them in the first place.