Legally adultery is defined as “voluntary sexual relations between an individual who is married and someone who is not the individuals spouse”. So an online relationship, kissing, meetings in secret, holding hands or anything less that that would not be classed by the court as adultery.

Can a spouse get your phone records?

How Do You Get Cell Phone Records? As part of the discovery process, your attorney can subpoena your spouses cell phone records. A subpoena is a formal legal order for a party to allow access to information or evidence in a legal case. These records can be subpoenaed directly from the phone company.